Why Does My Anxiety and Depression Come in Waves?

Looking at the Triggers for Depression and Anxiety Symptoms

You may have landed on this page because you are asking a very specific question: why does my anxiety and depression come in waves? This can be one of the most frustrating parts of having mental health conditions.

Some days, it will seem like you are doing just fine, and you can go about your business without any problem at all. Then, on other days, the depression symptoms or other issues can be simply crushing. What changed, and how can you have more good days?

Below, we’ll take a look at how mental health conditions like depression or anxiety disorder work, and why they are inconsistent from day to day (or moment to moment). When you are ready to receive anxiety or depression treatment to make meaningful progress on your condition, call the team at Icarus Behavioral Health Nevada today to talk about your symptoms.

We want to get to know you, understand your situation, and craft a treatment plan to move forward.

Understanding the Wave-Like Nature of Mental Health Symptoms

Anxiety and depression symptoms rarely work in a straight line. Many people fall into the trap with anxiety or depressive disorders of thinking that once symptoms start to improve, they will keep moving in that direction.

This is consistent with our experience in other areas of life, like when we get sick. If you get a cold, you know that it will take a little while to feel better, but as you improve, the symptoms typically continue to fade until they are gone entirely.

Major depressive disorder and generalized anxiety disorder don’t work that way. You might notice an improvement in your symptoms for a time, only to have them return or even get worse. This can be particularly discouraging. It might feel like you are doing something wrong, but this is a very common occurrence.

The emotional and physical symptoms or mental health challenges are influenced by a variety of factors. Those factors can include biological, psychological, and environmental elements. Since the various factors that influence mental health can and will change as life moves along, you should expect your mental health to fluctuate along with them.

Even if you are actively working on improving your mental health, perhaps with the help of a healthcare provider, it’s still likely that your condition will move up and down over time.

The Role of Brain Chemistry

There is also the element of brain chemistry that plays a role in this story. Neurotransmitters in your brain, things like serotonin, dopamine, and norepinephrine, play important roles in mood regulation, motivation, and stress response. The problem is that these chemical systems do not operate at fixed levels.

The level of these brain chemicals will move up and down based on various factors. Those factors include sleep quality, levels of physical activity, hormonal changes, nutrition, and more. Even a subtle shift in the levels of these critical brain chemicals will have an impact on how mental health symptoms present from day to day.

Stress Accumulation and Emotional Load

The symptoms that can result from stress don’t always come on immediately. Sometimes, there is a delay, with the stress building up gradually over time from various places. Things like work pressure, family responsibilities, financial concerns, and other ongoing uncertainties pile up one after another, until the emotional load eventually becomes too heavy.

In the moment, it can feel like anxiety or depression came on suddenly. More accurately, it’s the chronic stress that was accumulating over time, and eventually the dam had to break. This is what happens with things like panic attacks, and it’s why they don’t always happen when you expect.

It’s not always major stressful life events that bring on a panic attack. Sometimes, it’s a simple, relatively minor thing that pushes you too far, and your nervous system can’t take any more.

All of this helps to explain how anxiety and depression can come in waves. You might go from moderate depression to a major depressive episode and back again. Various factors contribute to your overall mental health, and the symptoms of depression or anxiety that you experience will rise and fall as you move forward.

Triggers That Can Bring Symptoms Back

Above, we talked about how anxiety and depression occur on their own schedule, sometimes not quite in sync with what is going on in your life. That’s true, but it’s not always the case. Sometimes, major depression will be kicked off by a very specific, acute event.

Things that trigger depression can be internal or external. Sometimes, you’ll see them coming, and the anticipation alone will be enough to send you into a mental health crisis.

Examples of external triggers for someone experiencing depression include upcoming deadlines, loss, changes in routine, or exposure to stressful situations. Alternatively, you might have internal triggers like negative thought patterns, bad memories, self-criticism, or even specific physical sensations.

Triggers of all kinds can be tricky because they are sometimes so subtle as not to be noticed consciously. You might experience something that puts you in a depressed mood without really being able to trace what it was that happened in the first place to cause that shift.

The Impact of Sleep Patterns

The more you learn about human health in general, the more obvious it becomes that sleep habits impact virtually every part of well-being. No matter what the topic, it seems that getting good sleep can help, and that’s certainly the case here. Sleep plays a major role in emotional regulation, with poor sleep known to increase irritability, reduce stress tolerance, and intensify anxious thoughts.

While we are talking about things that are known to be good for human health, it’s also worth mentioning regular exercise. Staying physically active, even if it is just taking walks, does wonders for regulating mood.

Getting into good habits around sleep and exercise can’t guarantee that you won’t experience any sudden waves of anxiety or depression, but they are good starting points toward leveling things out.

Hormonal and Physical Influences

Another piece of this puzzle is the way that hormonal changes can impact mood and anxiety levels. Fluctuations in hormones that are tied to menstrual cycles, postpartum changes, thyroid function, or chronic health conditions can all have an impact on mental health.

In some cases, choosing to seek treatment for hormonal issues might be able to have the downstream effect of limiting waves of depression and anxiety.

Physical health issues work in a similar way. The nervous system is under stress when you are in physical discomfort with things like fatigue, pain, or inflammation. If you pay attention to how you are feeling physically and compare that to how you are doing mentally, you might find that there is a rather close connection between the two.

How Avoidance Serves Cyclical Symptoms

If you are dealing with a mood disorder or any other type of mental health condition that you feel like comes and goes, pay attention to how you deal with the cycles when they arrive. For example, what do you do when you feel like you have a low mood?

If you are like many people, you may decide to withdraw from activities, responsibilities, or social connections. You are doing this to avoid discomfort and give yourself a break from being in situations that don’t make you comfortable at the moment.

Unfortunately, this type of avoidance doesn’t offer significant relief. In fact, this can actually kick off a cycle that makes things worse in the end. In the short term, you might feel a bit of relief by cancelling things and just staying home.

However, this avoidance doesn’t actually change negative thought patterns, and over time, it can make things worse. You might find that your developing depression gets worse and worse when you embrace these lifestyle changes, so the things you are doing to seek relief actually end up hurting you in the end.

Why Willpower Alone Doesn’t Stop the Waves

Many people try to control their mental health symptoms through willpower alone. They think they can simply push through the discomfort, think positively about everything, and just stop worrying. While there might be something to be said about the ambition and effort that is shown with this attitude, it’s often not enough to override the biological and neurological processes that are in place.

To be clear, anxiety and depression are not choices. Rather, they are complex conditions that involve various brain and body systems. Expecting these systems to be completely static and lead to a constant level of emotional stability isn’t realistic.

Using some willpower to stop things like excessive worry can be a reasonable strategy, but willpower alone isn’t going to solve such a complicated matter.

Tracking Symptoms Without Obsessing

As you notice that your mental health symptoms come and go, you might start to track them to see if you can notice a pattern. There is some degree of value in this approach, so it’s not a bad idea to record how you feel during daily life.

However, this tactic should come with a word of warning. It’s possible that your tracking habit will go too far and you’ll wind up producing anxiety from the very thing that was supposed to help free you from it in the first place.

Try to come at your tracking process from a place of curiosity. Rather than judging yourself each time you have a bad day, just observe as a neutral party and look for patterns that might be meaningful.

When a certain event happens, or you have to go to a certain place, do you have other symptoms of depression? It’s often several factors that come together to cause a mental health wave, so it may take some time with a tracking habit before patterns start to appear.

Proper Treatment and Symptom Stabilization

Professional treatment for anxiety and depression can help reduce the intensity and frequency of symptom waves.

By going through therapy, you can learn more about your triggers and thought patterns, and the emotional responses that come with them. You can also learn skills for managing stress and regulating your emotions more effectively.

Also, when you get professional treatment, you may be pointed toward certain medications that can help stabilize your brain chemistry. Using medication doesn’t guarantee that you will be able to avoid the ups and downs that come with these conditions, of course, but it can help reduce baseline symptom levels.

Also, developing new lifestyle changes around things like sleep, nutrition, and exercise should be an important part of any treatment plan.

Expect Non-Linear Healing

This was mentioned previously, but it bears repeating here. If you are on a journey to heal from your anxiety or depression, expect that healing to come in waves as well. It’s not a linear process, and you will likely have breakthroughs that are followed by less-successful periods. That’s all part of the process, and it doesn’t mean that anything is wrong.

Find Mental Health Recovery Support at Icarus Today

Don’t put off seeking professional help for your clinical depression or other mental health conditions any longer. Taking this one big step really can change the rest of your life. We are proud to support mental health clients with a range of services, including talk therapy and other treatment options.

We can discuss your treatment program and answer any questions you may have about the process. Today is the day to make a change with Icarus Behavioral Health Nevada.

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References

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